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Celebrating 12 Years Since Surviving a Car Crash

Embracing Gratitude, Community, and Cherishing Every Moment

As I commemorate the 12th anniversary of surviving my life-altering car crash, I am compelled to share my heartfelt story, filled with triumph, loss, and the enduring power of hope. It is a tale that highlights the significance of this particular anniversary, as it marks the first year without my beloved Tobie by my side, who courageously battled Hemangiocarcoma and left us all too soon just a mere 7 months ago.

On a fateful day many years ago, my life was forever changed. Nika and Tsunami, two treasured canine companions who shared countless joyful moments with me, tragically lost their lives in the car crash.  One tossed from the car in an unsecured crate. The pain of their absence remains etched deep within my heart, a reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing every fleeting moment.

But amidst the wreckage, a silver lining emerged. Tobie, my dog who I brought into this world and treasured family member, had managed to escape the chaos and ran into the vast desert surrounding us. For a grueling 24 hours, after checking myself out of the hospital, I scoured the unforgiving terrain, fueled by hope and desperation. Every moment without Tobie felt like an eternity, yet I refused to give up. The power of love propelled me forward, and it was in the darkest moments that the strength of our bond became undeniable.

About Elicia

Elicia Calhoun is a World Champion competitor, a sought-after International Trainer, Lecturer, Professional Agility Coach and Instructor, and Author.
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Travel Safety

Another crucial lesson emerged from this harrowing experience – the significance of safe travel measures and responsible driving.
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The Power of Community

In my hour of need, an extraordinary community rallied around me. Friends, neighbors, and strangers alike joined the search, offering their unwavering support, encouragement, and prayers. Together, we formed a united front, scouring every inch of the desert – some virtually by calling in favors with friends who could fly over the crash site in the night hours, others called friends to gather horses in the area to begin a search, and some who actually spent the sleepless night on the side of the interstate highway until the break of dawn when we could resume the search – until finally, a collective sigh of relief swept through the air. Tobie had been found, weary but miraculously unharmed. The overwhelming sense of gratitude and love that enveloped us all is impossible to put into words.

From this life-altering experience, I learned invaluable lessons that forever changed my perspective. Firstly, gratitude became the guiding force in my life. I realized the immeasurable value of what I still had, despite the profound loss I experienced. Every breath, every sunrise, and every wag of Tobie’s tail became reminders of life’s blessings. It is through gratitude, and her hugs, that we find solace and strength to navigate the darkest moments.

Moreover, I discovered the immense healing power of love and community. Friends and strangers, bound together by a shared purpose, provided comfort, support, and empathy. Their presence in my life reminded me that we are not alone in our struggles. They nurtured my shattered spirit, allowing me to rebuild piece by piece. Together, we embarked on a journey of healing, recognizing the importance of connection and compassion.

Life. Love. Hugs

Elicia Calhoun’s accident

The article I wrote 5 years ago about my friend Elicia Calhoun’s accident. So many people wanted to know what happened, and Elicia asked me to write it so that others could learn from her story. What we all ended up learning was that dog people PULL TOGETHER when the going gets tough. Not just agility people, not just local people, not just friends, but

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12 year anniversary Hug Your Dog Story

This weekend marks the 12th year since surviving the tragic car crash, in which the infamous 24 hour search for Tobie went viral on social media, and sadly two of my precious cargo (Nika and Tsunami) died.  For those unfamiliar with the event, I was returning from a five week trip of teaching and competing with my six dogs. I was anxiously looking forward to

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GENERAL pet travel safety tips

Traveling with pets can be an enjoyable experience, but it’s important to ensure their safety and well-being throughout the journey. Here are some GENERAL pet travel safety tips 1. Plan Ahead: Before traveling, research the requirements and regulations for traveling with pets in your destination. This includes checking if your pet needs vaccinations, health certificates, or any specific documentation. 2. Visit the Veterinarian: Take your

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1. Get Sufficient Rest Before Your Trip: Make sure you get a good night’s sleep before embarking on a long journey. Being well-rested will help you stay alert and focused while driving. Aim for at least 7-8 hours of sleep the night before. 2. Take Regular Breaks: Plan your trip with regular breaks to stretch your legs and rest. Every couple of hours, take a

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Five things NOT to put in your dog’s crate when traveling

1. Toys with Hard or Pointed Parts: Avoid placing toys with hard or pointed parts in your dog’s crate. During sudden speed changes, these toys can become dangerous projectiles and potentially injure your dog if they collide with them. 2. Unsecured Dog Bowls: It’s best not to put unsecured dog bowls inside the crate. During sudden speed changes, bowls can tip over, spill, or move

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Five safety tips for safe car travel with a crate

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